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It\u2019s not fair that work causes burnout, but that makes it even more important to get clear on our own limits.<\/em><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The World Health Organization announced it would start classifying \u201cburnout\u201d as an official malady in May 2019, referring to it as an \u201coccupational phenomenon.\u201d Now, everyone is burned out. We\u2019re all burned out! Even amid the crises of the past year and beyond, the churn of capitalism takes no breaks. Societal burnout has gotten so bad that the New York Times reports that some burned-out workers are quitting their jobs (though not necessarily in search of \u201cadventure\u201d and good vibes, as the headline suggests, but because of unrelenting demands at work). <\/p>\n\n\n\n

As writer Jess Bergman recently wrote for The Drift, treating burnout as an issue of \u201cpersonal mental health\u201d misconstrues the fact that burnout is a result of systemic factors, like, oh, I don\u2019t know, a lack of paid time off and childcare, to name a couple. But there are things you can do, on an individual level, to help stave it off for you, personally. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cI think people get to the point of saying, \u2018I\u2019m so burned out, I don\u2019t know how I got here,\u2019 but in retrospect, there are signs and symptoms before you get to burnout,\u201d therapist Melissa Russiano told VICE. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

To offer a little bit of help, VICE spoke with therapists who focus on occupational burnout\u2014defined by Russiano as fatigue to the point that normal functioning stops, impacting you both emotionally and physically\u2014about what you can do on a regular basis to help avoid a major crash. This might not be enough to help dig yourself out of a burnout rut; this of their advice more as practical things you can do to make major burnout a little less inevitable. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Create a \u201cbody budget.<\/em><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Russiano said one of the first things she does with clients who are dealing with burnout is have them write a list of everything that\u2019s stressing them out, or making them angry and upset. Then, with her guidance, they go through the list and divide it into things that are within their control, and things that are beyond their control. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cYou can\u2019t avoid the IRS and bosses and deadlines,\u201d Russiano said\u2026 but you can control things like how much you sleep, how much caffeine you\u2019re drinking, and, to an extent, how much time you spend working after hours. The point of this exercise is to get familiar with what\u2019s demanding the bulk of your time and energy, or, in other words, what\u2019s chipping away at your \u201cbody budget.\u201d <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cYou only have so much energy per day, and if you invest it in things that are out of your control, it\u2019s going to be very difficult to have any energy left for the things that you truly care about and are in your control,\u201d Russiano said. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If most of what you\u2019re investing your time in are things that you can\u2019t do anything about\u2014like your boss\u2019s proclivity for sending emails at 10 p.m., or a looming and unchangeable deadline\u2014then Russiano recommended making changes in other areas, like some rules for yourself around which 10 p.m. emails you\u2019ll respond to right away, and how you prioritize your time to meet said deadline.
\nCreate \u201coff hours,\u201d but make them realistic.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Back when we were all commuting to our jobs, Carly Bassett, a therapist in Austin, told burnout-addled clients to use the transition between work and home as a buffer in which no work was allowed. Now that not as many of us are commuting, the line between work time and personal time is faint. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Regardless of whether you\u2019re currently commuting, Bassett recommended setting aside a few hours each day that are completely your own. \u201cI would even suggest marking it off in a calendar to really keep it separate, and to keep work from bleeding into your time,\u201d Bassett said.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The only way this works, though, is if your off hours are realistic. If it works for you to say, I\u2019m not looking at my inbox after 5 or before 9, then great, do that. But if you realistically know that you\u2019ll be stressed out every morning if you don\u2019t respond to a few quick emails or block out some work time at night, then leave a little window to work before bed. \u201cIf there\u2019s work to be done or things that need to be followed up on, be explicit, like, \u2018I\u2019ll be doing it at this time,\u2019 Bassett said. \u201cThat way it\u2019s contained.\u201d
\nAsk your workaholic boss how they manage work challenges.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your workplace culture is all hustle, Bassett recommended asking your boss\u2014carefully\u2014how they personally manage tons of projects, long hours, and high expectations, and stave off burnout. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bassett said this conversation is, of course, totally dependent upon the kind of relationship you have with your manager; if the two of you rarely speak or you get the sense that they\u2019d be like, \u201cWhat do you mean burnout, I love and live for this job?,\u201d then perhaps skip this piece of advice. But if the two of you have a good rapport, Bassett said it can be a good way to let your boss know you\u2019re struggling\u2014and, ideally, get a little support.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cYou only have so much energy per day, and if you invest it in things that are out of your control, it\u2019s going to be very difficult to have any energy left for the things that you truly care about and are in your control,\u201d Russiano said.<\/em><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

\u201cManagers are seeing it all,\u201d Bassett said. \u201cThey may have some insight into practical things you can do. Like some people need permission to take lunch; there are a lot of unsaid rules and expectations that a good manager might be able to help you identify.\u201d
\nCreate \u201cpersonal policies\u201d to help you think about socializing.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

While Russiano said one of the prevention tactics for work-related burnout is to have a robust social and home life, constantly getting texts\/calls\/DMs\/etc. from friends can be taxing, too. To avoid getting into the \u201cI\u2019m actually at my emotional and mental capacity rn\u201d zone, Russiano recommends setting \u201cpersonal policies,\u201d aka boundaries. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

This can look however you want it to. Maybe it\u2019s letting people know that you\u2019ll mostly be slow to text back Monday through Thursday during the workday, but are down to FaceTime and\/or hang IRL on the weekends. Or it could be as simple as saying no to certain things, because you\u2019ve decided one of your personal policies is spending at least one day per week totally alone, being a blob on your couch. Whatever your policies end up being, though, you should stick to them as best as you can, and communicate your policies to folks in your inner circle as they come up. \u201cAnd if somebody doesn\u2019t get that you need balance, then where do they really fall on your continuum,\u201d Russiano said\u2014i.e., your close friends should understand that you can\u2019t be \u201con\u201d all the time, and anyone who doesn\u2019t respect your boundaries might not be the friend you thought they were. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cNot to channel Marie Kondo, but know what brings you joy,\u201d Russiano said. \u201cIf writing reports doesn\u2019t bring you joy, you need to find something that\u2019s going to balance that out, and give you energy to do something you don\u2019t necessarily want to do.\u201d That might look like making another list, this time of \u201cthings I hate doing\u201d and \u201cthings I like doing,\u201d and then making sure those two columns are a little more equally represented in your everyday life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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That might sound obvious, but as Russiano mentioned, the slippery slope into burnout can be gradual and sneaky; you might not notice until it\u2019s too late, for instance, that 80 percent of your waking hours are dominated by menial work tasks and doing laundry. That\u2019s why you may notice a pattern to all the advice given here: It all involves taking stock of what you\u2019re doing, and how the things you\u2019re doing make you feel. Doing that won\u2019t dismantle the systemic factors that lead to wide scale burnout, but it may help you feel a little better on a day to day basis, which is a nice place to start\u2014and will give you the ability to advocate for the bigger systemic changes we desperately need. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

— Hannah Smothers —<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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